How Writing a Book Changed My Life: A Look Behind the Scenes

30 Days of Gratitude: Day 16

Writing a book taught me a lot.

It taught me about goals, patience, hard work, and that dreams do come true.

I never thought in a million years that a small-town girl like me would write a book someday that would change my life forever. And possibly change the world and the lives of women who desire to unlock their passions and purpose within too. I wanted to write a book for women that’s relatable to them and the things that impact their lives. I believe in helping women see their strengths, develop self-confidence, and become well-rounded, independent leaders.

Everybody has that one book. The one that grips your heart and came along at the right moment in your life. The one that made you feel inspired, empowered, heard, or less alone.

I have a confession.

I’d never been a book nerd until three years ago. I use to associate reading as a chore rather than enjoyment. That was until I found books that spoke to me, my life, and my goals. Then, they had me at hello, which motivated me to write my book, and empower women to pursue their dreams despite their failures or fears. My goal was to write a book for women that will leave a special place in their hearts.

Writing this book was also a personal goal of mine. I would be remiss if I didn’t mention that. I’ve always had audacious dreams that scared me. And for a long time, my timidness triumphed my tenacity to want more. But I had two choices. I could continue affirming the lies I was telling myself, or believe truths. During the process of writing my book, I learned a lot of freeing truths along the way. I grew as a person, and I connected with myself in ways that I’d never done before.

I learned that becoming the best version of yourself is up to you. And something powerful happens when you realize that you (and only you) can change the trajectory of your course. You are the only one that can take charge of your future. No one else is responsible. At the end of the day, your willpower comes from within you.

You were not made to be small. The first time I read those words, I realized that I’ve been playing small, thinking small, and getting small results. These seven words have stayed with me since I’ve read Girl, Wash Your Face by Rachel Hollis. (Yes, I’m a huge fan!) I said those exact words when I decided to launch my freelancing business and lifestyle blog, Girl, You Write on September 1, 2019. And through the duration of the final stages of writing my book.

After writing my book, here are some valuable things I learned.

Books are a form of expression, education, and validation. Through written words, I was able to express myself in ways that I thought weren’t possible. I learned things that will forever change my life through persistent, confidence, and determination. It validated that I was capable of achieving my dream.

Making a difference to people. The most gratifying part of writing a book is having a positive influence on people’s thinking, ultimately impacting their lives and inspiring them to go after their dreams.

It helped me build new relationships. It connected me with brilliant people in the field of entrepreneurship, writing, and publishing. I’ve gained a wider network of people that I can seek out for professional advice, support, and collaboration.

Overall, my life has changed drastically through my journey of writing this book. My outlook on life is different, my confidence has increased, and my horizons have expanded. I have broken down barriers to become a better person and a better writer. Most importantly, I am chasing big dreams. My dreams.

I’m thankful for conquering my fears, getting out of my comfort zone, and writing a book.